Author | Topic: Moon Square Mars Synastry |
Brenda_S Knowflake Posts: 247 | posted December 16, 2018 06:14 PM There's a lot of info online about it being an emotionally disturbing albeit sexually intense aspect. About the emotions being hurt and all... Is it something 'a couple' can get past? And how does the Mars feel towards the Moon person? Is it just sexual attraction? And say if the moon expresses feelings of being hurt, how does the Mars feel towards it? Like do they feel like they need to tune into their emotions better or do they just get put off by it and back off? IP: Logged |
StoneMoon Knowflake Posts: 369 | posted December 16, 2018 06:35 PM I had it, my Mars square his moons. AS they all say, look at all the aspects. I loved this man like crazy, but he was not as invested. We had many other nice aspects, and many other intense aspects. I don't think Moon square Mars was our demise. And we had tons of sexual chemistry. I did hurt his feelings, but he also hurt mine and his Mars did not aspect my Moon. Now that I think about it though, maybe this aspect did lead to our downfall? He finally opened up to me, and it scared me. So the way I responded (acted), hurt his emotional self and he withdrew and we never fully recovered. We tried again, but we couldn't make it work. IP: Logged |
Brenda_S Knowflake Posts: 247 | posted December 16, 2018 06:55 PM @StoneMoon "He finally opened up to me, and it scared me. So the way I responded (acted), hurt his emotional self and he withdrew and we never fully recovered." What do you mean by it scaring you? Did you feel this blockage of energy suddenly, like repulsed (Mars) by his emotions (Moon)? And the way you responded, was it verbally hurtful or were you not emotionally in tune for what he'd expect after opening up? IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 428 | posted December 17, 2018 02:24 AM My bestie has this double whammy with her boyfriend. This also shows up in their Composite so it's a theme in their relationship. They're always arguing...what she does hurts him and what he does hurts her. She's quite convinced that he doesn't love her because of his hot/cold behaviour. But to him, he's just being himself so he finds her complaints nonsensical and she feels even more hurt because he doesn't take her insecurities seriously. On the other hand, he feels that she's always against him even though it was never her intention. I think this aspect makes them misunderstand each other's behaviour/intentions a lot...and that's why the hurt feelings. IP: Logged |
Brenda_S Knowflake Posts: 247 | posted December 17, 2018 03:34 AM @Hikaru What modality are their squares? And do they have any other aspects softening it? IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 428 | posted December 17, 2018 03:52 AM quote:Originally posted by Brenda_S: All in mutable. In composite it's cardinal signs. They don't have a lot of soft aspects in Synastry actually, other than Moon sextile Asc and Jupiter. They do have Venus trine Pluto but that's more like a hot aspect, right? IP: Logged |
Brenda_S Knowflake Posts: 247 | posted December 17, 2018 03:53 AM What about other softening aspects? IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 428 | posted December 17, 2018 03:57 AM quote:Originally posted by Brenda_S: I just edited my answer above. In addition, Sun sextile Asc, Venus trine Mercury and conjunct Jupiter. IP: Logged |
Brenda_S Knowflake Posts: 247 | posted December 17, 2018 04:24 AM I think to personal planets would probably help the most. Like I would really assume that the Venus/Mercury/Jupiter would help? Unless dunno maybe it's an Aries Mercury and Jupiter will just aggravate it. Sun to ascendant would I think just result in a physical comfortability and recognizable energy between one another. Don't think ascendant aspects would mitigate fights unless the person is just gorgeous and the other is just flabbergasted by 'em lol hence muting the tension (jk) although maybe if they deal with it in a charming way it may evoke the moon to AC (is it the same person in this case?)... Who owns the Mercury in this case? And how is its' natal aspects? And is this the moon person too (that sextiles the others' asc?) IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 428 | posted December 17, 2018 04:39 AM quote:Originally posted by Brenda_S: Lemme see... His Pisces Moon sextile her Taurus Asc and Cap Jupiter. His natal Mercury conjunct Sun/Venus, square Jupiter/Saturn, sextile Neptune, trine Pluto. His Moon semisquare Venus, trine Jupiter, sextile Saturn, square Neptune. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 453 | posted December 17, 2018 07:15 AM my fiancee's moon squares my mars (but her venus/pluto conjunction sextiles it and her neptune conjuncts it) and i love her though there is a huge part of our relationship that's sexual i think it can make her defensive towards me sometimes, a little explosive emotionally, but it hasnt put me off more than temporarily i have the aspect natally and we have the same moon sign so that could be why i'm not bothered but i tend to understand why shes acting that way better than she can, and ive known her so long that i don't really get offended by the overemotional behavior though i can find it frustrating she's been through a lot and is emotionally vulnerable as a result and i set her off worse than other people can, but that sort of thing passes IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 428 | posted December 17, 2018 07:33 AM quote:Originally posted by Dumuzi: In your opinion does having compatible moon signs help a lot in attraction and/or affection? I'm looking at 2 very similar synastries and the aspect that stood out was one has Moon sextile Moon and the other one has Moon square Moon. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 453 | posted December 17, 2018 09:12 AM quote:Originally posted by Hikaru29: i think it helps us understand each other in spite of our differences she's similar to me in enough ways where i can understand where she's coming from whether or not either of us is communicating it well in that moment where we're just not getting along we do argue often, and we go through phases where we break up once a week during an argument and are back together by the end of it because in a lot of ways, most things are ultimately frivolous to us both aside from the connection between us and really we can both just be difficult people so it's going to happen IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 428 | posted December 17, 2018 09:29 AM quote:Originally posted by Dumuzi: Do you have a lot of Pluto contacts? IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 453 | posted December 17, 2018 09:46 AM quote:Originally posted by Hikaru29: her and i? my pluto is conjunct her scorpio venus/pluto conjunction, and trine her jupiter/mars conjunction in pisces and my sun is in a minor trine with my pluto/neptune (sun and neptune both sextile pluto and trine each other) so there's that too she has a scorpio mercury so her chart is fairly plutonic too in placidus i have a 1st house pluto (libra ascendant conjunct venus and south node though) IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 428 | posted December 17, 2018 09:51 AM quote:Originally posted by Dumuzi: I mean in Synastry and Composite because what you described sounds plutonic. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 453 | posted December 17, 2018 10:00 AM quote:Originally posted by Hikaru29: i told you the synastry and our charts individually since that adds to how something plays out i didn't know the composite offhand, just looked at it for you my pluto is trine her mars and jupiter conjunction and conjunct her venus/pluto conjunction, but we both have individual pluto stuff going on too which i think is part of why that works out in our composite venus is conjunct pluto (we have venus conjunct sun too but the sun and pluto are too far to be conjunct, sun and venus in libra and pluto in scorpio) pluto squares mars in our chart too scorpio rules the 12th house but in placidus sun/venus/pluto is all 11th house edit: btw just to give you a clearer picture mars only squares pluto not venus or the sun IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 428 | posted December 17, 2018 11:45 AM quote:Originally posted by Dumuzi: Thanks. That's quite a fair bit of Pluto, IMO. When you mentioned breaking up and patching back within the same week I thought of Pluto instead of Moon square Mars, lol. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 453 | posted December 17, 2018 11:52 AM quote:Originally posted by Hikaru29: yeah i seem to go for pluto heavy relationships, friendships and not same hour usually, getting back together it's a mid fight thing usually one day she'll kill me in my sleep or some **** lol IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 428 | posted December 17, 2018 12:30 PM quote:Originally posted by Dumuzi: Haha, totally get that. My guy and I can fight one moment, kiss the next, and yet the next moment I'm deleting his number angrily saying I'll never contact him again. We have a lot of Pluto going on in synastry/composite. Natally we both have Moon square Mars and in composite Moon opposite Mars. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 453 | posted December 17, 2018 12:40 PM quote:Originally posted by Hikaru29: yeah it's like that, i've had sex with her not being totally sure of where we were at otherwise and just a lot of ups and downs very high highs and low lows with not much in between when we're good things are essentially perfect, when we're not it's a huge mess IP: Logged |
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